Those are the guys who “really love a BBW” and couldn’t care less about getting to know you. They hide behind compliments that are really back-handed insults like, “There’s so much more of you for me to squeeze. ” It’s difficult to remember that if a guy’s a douchebag, I don’t want him anyway. Of course I don’t. But sometimes all I can remember is the sting of rejection, his cruel remark, or him looking through me to the skinny model in the corner. Similarly, it’s always hard to remember that I do not have to settle, that I am entitled to my happy ending just as much as the next girl, whatever size she may be. No law says I have to lower my standards, even though sometimes a guy will make me feel like I do. Your friends may make you feel that way too.